With Valentines day tomorrow what do I want most from my partner. After 30 years of marriage I would like to conversation. Don’t get me wrong my husband and I do talk but for me I need to change. I am really feeling like in this area of our lives I need to do some work. So let me share with you what I am going to change on my behalf.
- Go back to being a friend. Instead of the endless chatter about not important things.
- Don’t just ask him how his day was and then chime in with your response. Ask him and actually listen to his response instead of being concerned with your response.
- Treat him with the same respect and dignity that he does you
- Have a game night once a week to lighten the mood
- When watching t.v. together put away everything digital so that you are present
- Remember there are two sides to everything and give up the right fighting
- Most of all remember all relationships grow and change just like people. You just need to nurture things with love and respect
I WISH YOU ALL THE HAPPIEST OF VALENTINE’S DAY
LIVING IN HEALTH 