RESCUE VERSUS SUPPORT

This is definitely something that I am asking what is the difference between Rescuing and Supporting someone. So I looked up both of these definitions.

Rescue- To cause to be free from danger.

Supporting- providing support, especially moral or emotional support.

Even with looking up these definitions I am still confused. One thing that is standing out to me though is there is a fine line between the two. I guess if I am rescuing someone I am doing all of the work and getting them out of a problem or solving the problem. If I am being supportive I am there to listen but they are needing to do the work instead of me.

I am starting to realise that for a long time people rescued me, so I was comfortable rescuing others. The best and healthiest relationship for me and those in my life is one of supporting each other not rescuing.

One thought on “RESCUE VERSUS SUPPORT

  1. I also think that it’s who’s doing the work that makes the difference. I think supporting can even be both people doing the work, but rescuing seems like it’s passive on the part of the person being helped.

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